3). Pick one concept from the assigned reading, that has not already been discussed during this discussion week, that you found useful or interesting, and discuss it.
This week the section in chapter 7 titled Active Listening Response Methods really stood out to me. I think they are all key concepts to actively responding, but the one that really stood out to me was using nonverbal communication. I feel that nonverbal communication at times can actually be more effective than the words that we speak, especially when we are listening. The book states that, “Since more that 50% of all meaning is communicated nonverbally, effective listeners make use of nonverbal gestures. Making eye contact, nodding our heads, and sitting in an attentive manner all indicate that we are interested ad listening, and they encourage the speaker to continue talking.”(Harris, 139) Nonverbal communication is key to understanding the meaning of the words that we speak and the feelings that we want to express to others. When actively listening you do not always have the opportunity to speak a lot. You must depend on nonverbal communication as a listener, in order for your speaker to know you are engaged in the conversation. Someone that does not show any nonverbal then shows the speaker that they have no interest in the conversation. I am verbal and kinesthetic learner and when I am having a conversation with someone else I depend on nonverbal communication to understand how the other person is feeling, as well the meaning behind his or her words spoke. Nonverbal communication speaks much louder to be than verbal communication.
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I agree that active listening is an important concept in chapter 7 as well. Nonverbal communication is always seen but never talked about with others. We see each other’s habits of nonverbal communication, yet we cease to talk about the meanings of them. Through understanding and knowing a person is to know their signs of nonverbal communication. I agree with your definition of nonverbal communication. Not too long ago, my girlfriend was mad at me. I wouldn’t have known unless I went to her work to see the expression on her face. Immediately I knew what was wrong. Every time she say’s that “nothing is wrong;” something is especially wrong.
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ReplyDeleteI agree with Sweetheart and Minh that nonverbal communication is important. It is true that we are not always given an opportunity to verbally communicate. When we are listening to a teacher or our supervisor, a simple nodd can let the person know that we are listening. I smile or frown can let the person know our position on the topic. I know that when I take a deep breath and let it out slowly, I am showing non-verbally that I am tired. I also agree that unless we see someone’s expression, it may be hard to see how they are truly feeling.
Good Job
Henry